Caring What You're Sharing
Sharing a good experience with another human deepens our enjoyment of the moment, but only if we abide by certain rules. Dr Laurie Santos shows us how we often get ’sharing’ wrong and explains how we can all derive more happiness from ice cream, sunsets and a night in front of the TV.
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“It’s October 5, 1833 and inventor William Henry Fox Talbot is annoyed.”
“On this Oct. 5th, 2010, another inventor, software engineer Kevin Systrom is just about to launch the new photosharing app he’s developed with partner Mike Krieger.”
“Maryellis Bunn is a young entrepreneur that many have called “the Millennial Walt Disney.”
“In one study, psychologist Mike Tomasello and his colleagues brought parents and young toddlers into the lab and staged weird events.”
“Erica devised a cool way to test this new idea— with a chocolate tasting.”
“Scientists at McGill University had subjects stick their hand in super cold water, which hurts a ton.”
Martin, L. J., Hathaway, G., Isbester, K., Mirali, S., Acland, E. L., Niederstrasser, N., ... & Sternberg, W. F. (2015). Reducing social stress elicits emotional contagion of pain in mouse and human strangers. Current Biology, 25(3), 326-332.
Erica told me about a study by another Cornell researcher Gus Cooney:
“I am the founder and CEO of the Museum of Ice Cream.” https://www.museumoficecream.com/
“So Alix decided to study these questions, starting with memory.”
Barasch, A., Diehl, K., Silverman, J., & Zauberman, G. (2017). Photographic memory: The effects of volitional photo taking on memory for visual and auditory aspects of an experience. Psychological science, 28(8), 1056-1066.
“People in the photo condition? They showed significantly more enjoyment.”
“We actually showed that the benefits that you get from capturing photos are actually diminished or undermined when you take photos to share.”