The Power of a Made-up Ritual
Vlad’s mom taught him a family tradition — remember grandpa when you taste the first fruits of the season. It was odd, but the boy went along with it. Only later when he faced two crushing bereavements of his own did Vlad realize the power of tiny personal rituals to ease his grief.
Dr. Laurie Santos examines the science behind this effect and explains how rites, ceremonies and rituals could help you deal with events that make you sad — from job rejections to divorce.
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“They study the science behind rituals.”
“We did a couple of surveys really early on where we asked people”
“But the thing we landed on was having people lose a lot of money.”
“Creative personal rituals like the tattoo Vlad is planning can help people take control of otherwise out-of-control seeming situations.”
“Even when we look in pretty diverse regions of the world, in fact in all seven major regions of the world we find this relationship whereby people who donate money to charity are happier than those who don't.”